Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, threatening or violent behaviour.
Domestic abuse can take many different forms:
- Coercive control (a pattern of intimidation, degradation, isolation and control with the use or threat of physical or sexual violence)
- Psychological and/or emotional abuse
- Physical or sexual abuse
- Economic abuse
- Harassment and stalking
- Online or digital abuse
In the majority of cases of domestic abuse it is perpetrated by a partner or ex-partner, but it can also be perpetrated by a family member or carer.
In our Family Hubs we have a poster that asks:
- Is someone you know:
- Cruel to you?
- Threatening you?
- Telling you what to do all the time?
- Taking your money
- Making you have sex when you don’t want to?
- Not letting you see your friends or family?
All of your local family hubs will have a safe space where you and your children can go if needed so, please don’t suffer in silence, we are here to help. Just speak to a colleague.
Our Family Hubs are a safe place where support can be accessed.
You may see the J9 sticker on our front doors- this is because we have signed up to the J9 Domestic Abuse Initiative.
Colleagues in our service have received training to recognise the signs of abuse and respond effectively- supporting you and your family.
Domestic abuse can have devastating effects on children both physically and emotionally. Every child has the right to feel safe in their own home.
If you are experiencing domestic abuse, there are many different people who can support you and your children.
Your Family Hub Team will also be able to support you and your children if you are suffering from domestic abuse.
You can contact your local Team on:
- Mid Essex Tel: 0300 247 0014
- North Essex Tel: 0300 247 0015
- South Essex Tel: 0300 247 0013
- West Essex Tel: 0300 247 0122
All of your local family hubs will have a safe space where you and your children can go if needed so please don’t suffer in silence, we are here to help.
If you or your child are frightened or at risk of imminent harm call 999, the police will help you.
More Information
Essex Domestic Abuse Services
COMPASS is a single point of access funded by Essex County Council in partnership with the Office of Essex Police, Fire and Crime Commissioner to support victims of domestic abuse across Southend, Essex and Thurrock.
The aim is to provide a single number, which will be available 24hrs a day, for callers to speak with a trained member of staff who will complete an assessment and ensure contact is made with the most appropriate support service.
Essex Domestic Abuse Helpline
Telephone: 0330 3337 444
Helpline available from 8am to 8pm weekdays and 8am to 1pm weekends. Messages will be responded to within 24hrs.
Further information from Essex Child and Family Wellbeing Service
Useful Links
- Essex Compass
- About SETDAB – Southend and Thurrock Domestic Abuse Partnership
- Domestic Violence & Abuse · Emergency Injunction Service (ncdv.org.uk)
- What is domestic abuse? | Essex Police
- Next Chapter (thenextchapter.org.uk)
- Essex Children Safeguarding Board
- The Change Project – Relationships: Counselling & Domestic Violence (thechange-project.org)